Dear Black Girls – Be Brave Get Money

Dear Black Girls,

This might sting… Why haven’t you taken control of your financial future? Why aim just to get by?

I want to talk to you about something that may be difficult to hear, but it’s important that we address it. As a Black female psychologist, I’ve seen how cultural and psychological biases can impact the way we see ourselves and our potential for success.

Many Black women face unique challenges when it comes to building wealth. Some of these challenges are external, like systemic racism and lack of access to resources. But some are internal, and stem from deeply ingrained cultural and psychological beliefs.

One of the biggest obstacles Black women face is a lack of belief in their own potential. This can come from a number of sources, including cultural messages that suggest that Black women are less capable or less deserving of success than their counterparts of other races. It can also come from personal experiences of discrimination or marginalization, which can chip away at our confidence over time.

Another issue that affects many Black women is a fear of taking risks. This can be rooted in cultural messages that suggest that Black women need to be extra careful and avoid taking chances. But the truth is, taking calculated risks is often necessary to build wealth and achieve success.

Finally, many Black women struggle with self-doubt and imposter syndrome. These feelings can be particularly intense when we’re in environments where we are underrepresented or not fully valued. But it’s important to remember that our worth and potential are not defined by the opinions of others.

So what can we do to overcome these obstacles and start building wealth? The strategies I outlined in my previous letter are a great place to start. But it’s also important to address the psychological and cultural barriers that may be holding us back.

Here are some tips for overcoming these barriers and achieving True Success:

1. Challenge negative beliefs: When you find yourself thinking negative thoughts about your potential or worth, challenge those beliefs with evidence to the contrary. Remind yourself of your accomplishments and strengths.
2. Take calculated risks: Instead of avoiding risks altogether, learn how to take calculated risks. Do your research, weigh the potential outcomes, and make informed decisions.
3. Surround yourself with supportive people: Seek out mentors and peers who believe in you and support your goals.
4. Celebrate your successes: Don’t downplay your accomplishments or attribute them to luck or chance. Celebrate your successes and recognize your own hard work and talent.
5. Seek therapy: If you’re struggling with deep-seated psychological barriers to success, consider seeking therapy to work through these issues.

I believe in you, Black girls Everywhere. I know that we can overcome these barriers and build a better future for ourselves and our communities. Let’s start by believing in ourselves and our potential for success.

Sincerely,

A World Class Psychologist within YOU!